let it be

sooooo remember how I said I was going to try and post every sunday? Thaaaats funny I thought I would have THAT much content. So i’ve decided to just post when I have things to say or want to talk about! And after so much thinking about what I should post next.... it came to me today.

I’ve always lived my life thinking it should go a certain way, or I need to have this much fun to be able to tell my kids stories in the future, or I need to think about this before I do it so I can prepare myself for the future. WELL I am here to admit that I am going to stop worrying about the future and stop trying to plan my life out every second. By doing this, I know it’s going to relieve soooo much stress off of me. It’s so much easier to just live in the moment when your not thinking about what will happen in the next year or in 10 years. Because if I worry too much about what’s going to happen in the future, the days are going to go by and I won’t get to look back and say they were the best days of my life. I know in the end, whatever happens is going to be what’s supposed to happen.

One of the main things i’m talking about is highschool. I always have thought to myself I need to have a specific expirence in highschool to be happy. If my life isn’t like Highschool Musical, I don’t want it. But I have come to realize everyone is going to live different experiences and different lives and I shouldn’t try to shape mine to be perfect. Nobody is in control of how their lives fall into place and that’s what makes life so interesting.

One thing I live by (and most of you may know this) is: Everything happens for a reason. I think about this every day in every situation and it makes things so much easier to deal with. No matter what you believe in or if you believe in anything religiously, this saying brings you the kind of peace you need to move on from things or get over things. Good and bad ! If something didn’t go as planned, maybe something better is waiting for you. That’s whats so amazing about life is that you get to keep living not knowing what’s going to happen next. Bad things will come and go, and the good things will surprise you and you’ll remember them for the rest of your life.

Us as human beings are soooo strong. We have been able to put up with things that break us down the most. Failure, heartbreak, loss, and so much more. There are so many bad things that can happen in this world and all we can do is live our life with no worries because that’s the only way we will find true happiness. ( cliché I know) but it’s true!

So I don’t know who needed this little reminder but I definitely did. So there is my little spill of insight for the week, thanks for reading! :)